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Choosing An Effective Adult Dating Site

Saturday, January 1st, 2011

Choosing an Effective Adult Dating Site

The Internet is full of Adult Online Dating Sites all claiming to be the best and most effective. Only a very small proportion of them have any right to make such claims. Those with a huge member database, are well established and deliver a really effective adult online dating service and are certainly worth joining and will deliver. Finding these highly effective sites is not difficult if you know what you are looking for.

Start by considering what are the really essential requirements for an effective adult dating site. Firstly the site needs to be established in your country as it’s pointless to you if they have thousands of members all of which are thousands of miles away! There are several good U.S., Canadian and Australian adult dating sites but if you live in the U.K., it is best to look for a U.K. site. Although it is perfectly possible for these non-U.K. sites to have a lot of U.K. members, all other aspects being equal, a U.K. site will be better at delivering a U.K. service. But don’t try to guess where a web site is run from by it’s domain extension. There are many dot coms that are British – take B&Q for example! Instead, look up the site owners’ address, it will normally be on one of the prominent web pages, such as a ‘Contact Us’ page. However bear in mind that many hugely sucessful adult online dating companies run sites for different countries.

Having established that the online adult dating site has a focus in your home country, the next thing to check out is how long they have been running. You can use either Network Solutions or Nominet to find out when a domain was registered. There are two reasons why the age of a site matters. Firstly because it takes time for the website development, search engine optimization and advertising to make a site popular enough to attract the constant new members that are needed for effective adult dating. Secondly, because the longer an adult dating site has been operating, the more likely it is to have been doing so effectively. Most fail within the first year of starting.

The third thing to check is to get some idea of how many members the site is likely to have. Unfortunately there is no way of being totally certain but if the site has been running for more a few years and is based in your country it is should have the membership numbers needed to make it effective. Most sites will allow you to do a free search for members in your local or chosen areas to provide further evidence that the number and current level of membership activity are as good as the other factors indicate.

The final thing to look for is does the site claims to be totally¬† free. If it does, you should be hearing alarm bells rather than celebrating the fact that it isn’t going to cost you anything. Ask yourself one easy question; why on earth would someone provide a free totally service when the set up, maintenance, development, marketing and search engine optimization of an adult online dating site costs thousands of pounds per year and is often the work of a large team of employees? If it’s totally free its because they are either just starting up and desperately need some members or it’s true purpose is not to deliver adult dating at all but it exists to capture personal information for scams ranging from email spam to identity theft. At the very best you are going to be bombarded with advertisements. Also free sites are far more likely to attract fake profiles or the sort of people you wouldn’t want to date – cheapskates!! If they won’t pay a few pounds to find their perfect match what sort of a partner will they be if you went on a date?

However, totally free sites are not the same thing as partially free sites. Those that offer you limited free membership to browse profiles and make searches are likely to be genuine. They offer some free access because they are confident that you will like what you find and quickly upgrade to full membership to be able to access the additional featuers. If you are satisfied that the site matches the other criteria discussed above, a limited free membership of this sort should be seen as a further positive indication of the site’s effectiveness.

If you are looking for Adult Online Dating or just a more gentle Online Dating experience we wish you well and hope you find the perfect match.

Get Your Dating Emails Read

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

How to Get Your Dating Messages Read

One thing many people wonder about is how they can make sure that the people they are writing to on adult dating sites actually open to read the messages they are sending them. So, here are the methods to ensure that women at least look at your emails, instead of just deleting them.

Making sure your emails are opened and read is a very important step in the “Online Dating Game.” Many of the most attractive women on adult dating sites will receive a high volume of emails every day, and they can’t or more likely won’t, want to bother reading all of them.

You have to remember that most of the emails a sexy woman receives are very boring and generic, with comments such as “hey, you’re hot” or “look at my profile and get back to me as I’m sure we have a lot in common”. Yuck.

Messages like that DON’T WORK!! This is a fact that gets proven thousands of times a day on all dating sites. So, it’s a great idea to give a woman a clue that your email is above average before she even opens it, here are three ways to get that accomplished:

1. Have an acceptable screen-name Most women don’t wants to exchange emails with a guy calling himself “DragonSlayer80″ or “BigSexyRob90.” They are also turned of by weird, cutesy, poetic and otherwise strange screen-names. On the flip-side, boring generic names like “Steve5750″ or “UnitedFanJim” aren’t going to push your cause. You need to pick a name that makes you sound like a fun, interesting, cool guy with a positive self-image like: “ChazTheCharmer” or “DiamondDomD.”

2. Use a good subject-line Again “hey”,”hi” or “hello” are far better than something creepy or sexual, but they don’t guarantee your email will be opened. To give your emails get the best chance of being opened, say something about the girl to are writing to in the subject-line.

For instance I found a girl who in her profile headline said “I’m a nerdy vegetarian from Oregon”, so I the subject line in the email I sent her was, “Are you really a nerdy, vegetarian from Oregon? Because that’s EXACTLY what I’m looking for.” Now normally I don’t tell guys to say things like “you’re exactly what I’m looking for”, but in this case it works because it is obviously a joke… After all, who has got his heart set on a nerdy vegetarian? Making jokes that other guys don’t have the balls to make is CRUCIAL!

3. Have a good profile pic When a woman gets an email, the first thing she looks at is the picture of the guy who sent it. If your picture stinks, then you’re pretty much stuffed before you begin. If your pic is amazing, then you can often get away with nearly anything. Again, you don’t need to be “good-looking” to take a great picture. Just wear something stylish, display great body language & learn how to smile right.

It’s a well documented fact that most men fail miserably at online adult dating. If you want to get your dating emails read, and responded to promptly so you can actually meet up with and sleep with hot women, then try some of the above tips