Posts Tagged ‘Learn’

How To Create an Adult Dating Profile

Wednesday, October 13th, 2010

How To Create the Perfect Adult Dating Photo Personals Profile

When you’re trying to create an inviting and sexy adult dating profile, balance is always needed. You would like to demonstrate your best qualities in an honest and approachable way, but you can also provide some interesting information to set it apart from the norm. The line between teasing playfulness and excessive vulgarity can be tricky of course, but if done well, you are sure to be the life of the adult dating party.

Here are some of our tips on safely navigating the potentially stormy waters of sex when adult dating.

The removal of inhibition: One of the advantages of online dating is the elimination of shyness and inhibition. You can feel free to say things they would never dare utter in person. This can be very liberating for many people who struggle in social settings, however, it may also lead to problems (specifically if you portray yourself in a way that can’t be lived up to in the flesh). Being aware of these limitations should help you when interacting with other members, and it will help create a considered adult photo profile; one that is at times sexy yet subtle and classy.

The subtle approach: Illicit Encounters & Marital affairs are an adult realm. Sex and sexuality are a big part of the scene, and everyone knows that. However, adopting a subtler approach when writing your photo personal may be key. Remember, the more you leave to the imagination, the more intrigued other sexy singles will be. There’s no limit to how suggestive your choice of language can get, but remember that once you cross over into what some may consider vulgar, you may create an impression that is hard to shake and put of many potential partners. You can always increase the flirting levels through messages, but you can never retract that first impression.

The enticing photos: You may be proud of your pert breasts or shapely rear, but do you really want to put it all over your profile? Again, after you’ve established contact and got to know other sexy singles, you can always share these types of photographs. Initially though, it may repel more people than it attracts. In fact, having a stash of sexy, non- PG rated photos to share later on can be a fun and exciting way to steam up a promising relationship. Just remember to pick your time (and partners) with care.

The sexy nickname (not always a good idea): Obviously the best nicknames are those that are fun, easy to say and catchy. There are never any rules in online dating, so you’re free to choose what you like, but remember, the name you select will most often become the moniker other members know you by. So be careful when using sexual innuendo (regardless of if its subtle or more risque), as a name like “BillyBigBalls” may end up causing more embarrassment and discomfort than anything else.

Creating unrealistic expectations: By choosing to post x-rated photos and excessively sexual language, you may be opening yourself up to those who do not have the best intentions in mind. Ultimately, you have the choice over who you talk to, but never feel the need to go along with certain behavior if it makes you feel uncomfortable. By detailing in your profile what you are looking for and what you hope to achieve from your online adult dating experience is the best way to avoid unrealistic expectations and misunderstandings.

The idea of balance in a relationship: While some relationships founded on pure physical attraction can flourish, most  do not. Remember that while sex is exciting and fun, it takes much more to foster a real, strong relationship. If you just want to have an Extra Marital Affair thats fine but, remember that if you’re looking to find more than that then an excessive focus on sex may not yield the results you want.

Online adult dating will always be what you make of it. It can be a potentially fantastic way to meet like-minded adults from all over the world, but you have to remain true to your goals. Sex and sexuality are a big part of the equation, but you should never feel pressured into acting any way that you are not comfortable with. Ultimately, being honest and upfront about what you want is an important step in avoiding misunderstandings and having fun.

Good luck!

A new study shows that people who work in jobs that look to help others in their community are also the top professions of people who cheat on their spouse. This is according to the US website, a dating site for professionals looking to cheat on their significant other.